Episode 60 is a continuation of Episode 59 where we discuss the steps to establishing boundaries with our in-laws. We also share how the Enneagram has been a crucial and revolutionary tool in helping us continue to learn how to love our in-laws.
In This Episode, You Will Hear About:
- The importance of learning to forgive your in-laws
- The difference between reacting and responding to your in-laws
Resources Mentioned During the Episode:
- Take a look at our first episode about the topic of in-laws, Episode 3: How To NOT Hate Your In-Laws
- Check out Episode 59: Learning to Love Your In-Laws Part 1
- Listen to Episode 51: The Perfect Gift For Every Enneagram Type
- For a free Enneagram Test, please click here
- For a paid Enneagram Test (which will be more accurate), check out The Enneagram Institute Testing Center
Quotables:
- “Refusing to forgive your in-laws may be one of the reasons you feel stuck and unable to separate yourself from their thoughts, opinions, and judgements of you.”
- “When you forgive, you can’t dictate how your in-laws will respond.”
- “What you are in control of is whether or not you can forgive them.”
- “When you refuse to forgive, you still want something from that person. Even if it is revenge that you want, or just to hear an apology from them for once, not forgiving them will keep you tied to your in-laws forever”
- “Nothing clarifies boundaries more than forgiveness.”
- “The truth of the matter is, if you do not forgive them, you are demanding something your in-laws may not be choosing to give. This ties you to them and ruins boundaries. If you forgive them, you are cutting those ties loose.”
- “Boundaries are not created or established to stop loving.”
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