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Mini Episode 8 | What Is Your Anger Trying To Tell You?

May 21, 2020
How many times have you lost your cool since the start of this pandemic? How many times have you yelled at your kids or gave the silent treatment to your spouse? No matter your experience with anger, it’s important to be aware of the anger that we feel. It is our body’s way of signalling something is wrong.
In today’s mini-episode, Daniel and Christina address how anger is a secondary emotion; it’s a reaction to another emotion. Your anger is trying to tell you something deeper is going on.

What Is Your Anger Telling To Tell You?

  • 1:15 Anger as a secondary emotion.
  • 1:42 Why we need to pay attention to our primary emotions.
  • 2:58 What your anger is trying to signal to you.
  • 4:42 Use your anger as a yellow flag.
  • 4:52 What to do with your anger.

Resources And Quotes Mentioned During This Episode:

  • Hear more about the Palms Down, Palms Up Prayer
  • “What emotion is underneath my anger?” @imbetweenshow
  • “Anger is what we call a secondary emotion. It’s a reaction to another emotion” @imbetweenshow
  • “While anger, frustration, or irritation is what’s showing up on the surface, the emotions are actually much deeper than that.  And knowing those deeper, primary emotions, is important.” @imbetweenshow
  • “Our anger is always trying to signal to us something deeper is going on. So when you feel yourself getting angry, when you notice frustration, irritation, and annoyance, stop, take a breath, and notice those feelings.” @imbetweenshow

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