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93: 6 Relationship Lessons From The Netflix Movie Marriage Story (Part 2)

March 30, 2020

Can a movie about divorce really teach us important lessons about marriage? Most certainly! We recently watched the Netflix movie, Marriage Story. While it is heartbreaking to watch a marriage literally crumble, the movie highlights some very important relationship lessons that can make or break a marriage.

In Episode 93, Daniel and Christina continue their discussion about the 6 crucial relationship lessons from the Netflix movie, Marriage Story.  If you have not listened to Part 1 yet, make sure to go back and do so.

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In This Episode, You Will Hear About:

  • Crucial marriage lessons from the Netflix movie Marriage Story
  • What intruders are and how to protect your marriage from them
  • How men and women are wired differently when it comes to physical intimacy
  • Why you and your spouse should have more sex
  • The importance of counseling and how it can help strengthen your marriage

Resources Mentioned During the Episode:

  • Listen to Part 1 of 6 Relationship Lessons From The Netflix Movie Marriage Story
  • Tune into our previous episode about How To Strengthen Your Marriage in 15 Minutes
  • Check out Episode 74: Blended Families: Strategies to Help Your Stepfamily Blend and Episode 75: Common Pitfalls in Blended Families and How to Overcome Them
  • Interested in learning more about Stone Walling? Listen to Episode 76: 4 Things to Remember When Marriage Is Hard
  • The Enneagram is an incredible tool to help strengthen your marriage! Listen to Episode 69: Enneagram and Communication Styles and Episode 70: Resolving Conflict with the Enneagram to find out more.
  • Want to find out more about bids? Read Dr. John Gottman’s books The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work and The Relationship Cure: A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships and What Makes Love Last? How to Build Trust and Avoid Betrayal
  • Interested in finding out more about intruders in your marriage and how to have healthy marriage boundaries? Read Dr. Henry Cloud’s Boundaries in Marriage 
  • Deb Hirsch’s book Redeeming Sex: Naked Conversations About Sexuality and Spirituality

Quotables & Tweetables:

  • Intimacy is an important part of a romantic relationship and one of the first areas to suffer if the marriage is going through a difficult season. @imbetweenshow
  • God designed both spouses to invest continually in their attachment to each other. Couples need to work to keep their love secure and safe. @drhenrycloud
  • When a marriage contains conflict or hurt, we tend to busy ourselves in other people and activities. Busyness is less painful than facing some seemingly unsolvable problem in love day after day. @drhenrycloud
  • The reality is that marriage is only as good as the investment people make in it. @drhenrycloud
  • Living in unconditional grace is never an excuse to be irresponsible or hurtful. @drhenrycloud
  • There are other issues surrounding the fact that you do not want to be physically intimate with your spouse. @imbetweenshow
  • Never make the one you love feel alone, especially when you’re there. @GottmanInst
  • Every positive thing you do in your relationship is foreplay. @GottmanInst

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We’re Daniel and Christina Im. Our heart’s desire and mission is to give you the tools to build a strong, connected, and joy-filled marriage and family.

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Some #spotify wins for the IMbetween podcast this past year. Thanks to all of our listeners and Podcast Family for journeying with us and trusting us with your time. 

Our podcast started out as a dream to help build strong marriages and families because when we were hurting the most (that 7 year struggle is real!) and couldn’t afford therapy, we didn’t know where to turn. We didn’t want anyone else to feel the same way, so we created a place and space where people could listen and learn in a safe environment. 

We have learned and grown so much since that first episode drop 7 years ago. In many ways, we’ve grown up together and watched our kids grow up too. It has been a blessing to walk this road together. Cheers to 2026 and all that it brings. 

Much Love,
Daniel and Christina 

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Some #spotify wins for the IMbetween podcast this past year. Thanks to all of our listeners and Podcast Family for journeying with us and trusting us with your time. 

Our podcast started out as a dream to help build strong marriages and families because when we were hurting the most (that 7 year struggle is real!) and couldn’t afford therapy, we didn’t know where to turn. We didn’t want anyone else to feel the same way, so we created a place and space where people could listen and learn in a safe environment. 

We have learned and grown so much since that first episode drop 7 years ago. In many ways, we’ve grown up together and watched our kids grow up too. It has been a blessing to walk this road together. Cheers to 2026 and all that it brings. 

Much Love,
Daniel and Christina 

#PodcastFamily #PodcastCommunity #ThankYouListeners #GratefulHeart #SevenYearsStrong  #GrowingTogether #christianmarriage #marriagepodcast #spotifywrapped #marriagehelp #imbetweenpodcast #PodcastWins #PodcastMilestones #PodcastersOfInstagram #PodcastersUnite #SpotifyPodcasts
Some #spotify wins for the IMbetween podcast this past year. Thanks to all of our listeners and Podcast Family for journeying with us and trusting us with your time. 

Our podcast started out as a dream to help build strong marriages and families because when we were hurting the most (that 7 year struggle is real!) and couldn’t afford therapy, we didn’t know where to turn. We didn’t want anyone else to feel the same way, so we created a place and space where people could listen and learn in a safe environment. 

We have learned and grown so much since that first episode drop 7 years ago. In many ways, we’ve grown up together and watched our kids grow up too. It has been a blessing to walk this road together. Cheers to 2026 and all that it brings. 

Much Love,
Daniel and Christina 

#PodcastFamily #PodcastCommunity #ThankYouListeners #GratefulHeart #SevenYearsStrong  #GrowingTogether #christianmarriage #marriagepodcast #spotifywrapped #marriagehelp #imbetweenpodcast #PodcastWins #PodcastMilestones #PodcastersOfInstagram #PodcastersUnite #SpotifyPodcasts
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Some #spotify wins for the IMbetween podcast this past year. Thanks to all of our listeners and Podcast Family for journeying with us and trusting us with your time. Our podcast started out as a dream to help build strong marriages and families because when we were hurting the most (that 7 year struggle is real!) and couldn’t afford therapy, we didn’t know where to turn. We didn’t want anyone else to feel the same way, so we created a place and space where people could listen and learn in a safe environment. We have learned and grown so much since that first episode drop 7 years ago. In many ways, we’ve grown up together and watched our kids grow up too. It has been a blessing to walk this road together. Cheers to 2026 and all that it brings. Much Love, Daniel and Christina #PodcastFamily #PodcastCommunity #ThankYouListeners #GratefulHeart #SevenYearsStrong #GrowingTogether #christianmarriage #marriagepodcast #spotifywrapped #marriagehelp #imbetweenpodcast #PodcastWins #PodcastMilestones #PodcastersOfInstagram #PodcastersUnite #SpotifyPodcasts
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Some #spotify wins for the IMbetween podcast this past year. Thanks to all of our listeners and Podcast Family for journeying with us and trusting us with your time. 

Our podcast started out as a dream to help build strong marriages and families because when we were hurting the most (that 7 year struggle is real!) and couldn’t afford therapy, we didn’t know where to turn. We didn’t want anyone else to feel the same way, so we created a place and space where people could listen and learn in a safe environment. 

We have learned and grown so much since that first episode drop 7 years ago. In many ways, we’ve grown up together and watched our kids grow up too. It has been a blessing to walk this road together. Cheers to 2026 and all that it brings. 

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Some #spotify wins for the IMbetween podcast this past year. Thanks to all of our listeners and Podcast Family for journeying with us and trusting us with your time. 

Our podcast started out as a dream to help build strong marriages and families because when we were hurting the most (that 7 year struggle is real!) and couldn’t afford therapy, we didn’t know where to turn. We didn’t want anyone else to feel the same way, so we created a place and space where people could listen and learn in a safe environment. 

We have learned and grown so much since that first episode drop 7 years ago. In many ways, we’ve grown up together and watched our kids grow up too. It has been a blessing to walk this road together. Cheers to 2026 and all that it brings. 

Much Love,
Daniel and Christina 

#PodcastFamily #PodcastCommunity #ThankYouListeners #GratefulHeart #SevenYearsStrong  #GrowingTogether #christianmarriage #marriagepodcast #spotifywrapped #marriagehelp #imbetweenpodcast #PodcastWins #PodcastMilestones #PodcastersOfInstagram #PodcastersUnite #SpotifyPodcasts
Some #spotify wins for the IMbetween podcast this past year. Thanks to all of our listeners and Podcast Family for journeying with us and trusting us with your time. 

Our podcast started out as a dream to help build strong marriages and families because when we were hurting the most (that 7 year struggle is real!) and couldn’t afford therapy, we didn’t know where to turn. We didn’t want anyone else to feel the same way, so we created a place and space where people could listen and learn in a safe environment. 

We have learned and grown so much since that first episode drop 7 years ago. In many ways, we’ve grown up together and watched our kids grow up too. It has been a blessing to walk this road together. Cheers to 2026 and all that it brings. 

Much Love,
Daniel and Christina 

#PodcastFamily #PodcastCommunity #ThankYouListeners #GratefulHeart #SevenYearsStrong  #GrowingTogether #christianmarriage #marriagepodcast #spotifywrapped #marriagehelp #imbetweenpodcast #PodcastWins #PodcastMilestones #PodcastersOfInstagram #PodcastersUnite #SpotifyPodcasts
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Listen to Episode 198 wherever you get your podcasts, or here https://imbetween.org/episode198/

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The Role of Numbing Behaviors 🤔🫨

Ever wonder why we turn to quick fixes when we’re stressed or exhausted? In Episode 197 of the IMbetween Podcast, @chris3janssen explains that numbing behaviors like reaching for sugary treats or alcohol provide immediate relief but often at a significant cost. 

We discuss a powerful exercise from her book, “Grace Yourself,” that helps individuals evaluate these numbing patterns and consider healthier alternatives. It’s about gaining awareness and making intentional choices to support our well-being. 

Tune in wherever you listen to your podcasts, or here @ https://imbetween.org/episode197
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The Role of Numbing Behaviors 🤔🫨 Ever wonder why we turn to quick fixes when we’re stressed or exhausted? In Episode 197 of the IMbetween Podcast, @chris3janssen explains that numbing behaviors like reaching for sugary treats or alcohol provide immediate relief but often at a significant cost. We discuss a powerful exercise from her book, “Grace Yourself,” that helps individuals evaluate these numbing patterns and consider healthier alternatives. It’s about gaining awareness and making intentional choices to support our well-being. Tune in wherever you listen to your podcasts, or here @ https://imbetween.org/episode197
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Did you know that despite growing awareness of mental health, anxiety and depression rates in children and adolescents have sharply risen? 

In episode 196 of the @imbetweenshow podcast, @sarahboyd, author of Turn Down the Noise, discusses how overstimulation in our environment could be a key factor. 

Just like a garden needs the right conditions to thrive, so do our minds. It’s about adjusting our surroundings to create supportive spaces for everyone, especially our kids. 🌱📘 

Listen wherever you get your podcasts, or by going to https://imbetween.org/episode196/

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Listen wherever you get your podcasts or at https://imbetween.org/epsiode195/
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