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52: Ways to Love Your Spouse When Life Is Hard with John and Julie Manning

February 11, 2019

Daniel and Christina Im interview John and Julie Manning about ways to love your spouse when life is hard. During the birth of her second child, Julie unexpectedly went into cardiac arrest. Within six weeks, tests revealed it was no one-time occurrence. This ultra-capable mom, wife, marathon runner, and pediatric nurse practitioner was in active heart failure. John and Julie share their story about how they have continued to love and support one another through the daily risk of Julie experiencing sudden cardiac death. 

In This Episode, You Will Hear About:

  • How to love your spouse when life is difficult
  • Different ways to show and support your spouse when life isn’t turning out to be the way you had hoped or planned

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  • Download our FREE eBook: The Perfect Gift for Every Enneagram Type

Resources Mentioned During the Episode:

  • Check out Julie Manning’s book My Heart: Every Beat Surrendered to Our Unchanging God 
  • Be sure to check out Episode 51: The Perfect Gift for Every Enneagram Type

Quotables:

  • “We’ve had a sense of what’s important and been on each other’s team. We have a disposition of grace toward one another; an overlooking of an offence. – John Manning
  • We assume that if something is said, it wasn’t with the intent to hurt or harm one another. We look for the best in one another and look to serve one another as we are walking through something difficult.” – John Manning
  • “Love is not an emotion. Love is a sacrifice.” – John Manning
  • “Friends, family, and community are there to help you. We aren’t meant to carry the heaviness of things alone. It will destroy us if we do that.” – Julie Manning
  • “Serve your friends with what you do well. Not everyone needs to bring a casserole.” – Julie Manning
  • “Disappointments usually come from missed expectations. So, you need to reset those expectations based on your new normal.” – John Manning
  • “Try not to focus on what you have lost, but on what you have been given.” – John Manning

 

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Meet John and Julie Manning:

Julie Manning is a wife to her beloved husband, John, mother of three fun-loving boys, and a pediatric nurse practitioner. At the age of 25, Julie left her career in corporate America to pursue a bachelor’s degree in nursing. While in nursing school, the Lord birthed a passion within Julie to care for children born with heart disease. Little did she know seven years later, she would learn that her own heart was sick. The Lord’s pursuit of Julie’s heart and soul through the valley of facing many uncertainties has developed a fire within her to live intentionally from moment to moment as if it may be her last.
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Fast forward 2 months and I finished my Peloton running outdoors program today where I ran 30 minutes straight without walking or stopping…a huge accomplishment as compared to day one. I think I will always be learning how to love and accept my body, but today, I rejoice that I am one step closer.
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Thanks to everyone who wished me a happy birthday. You all represent different times and aspects of my life made all the more meaningful and brighter because of your presence. My 40s started off with me doing some pretty deep healing, learning to dream again, learning my limits, learning how to say no, learning to ask for what I needed, and learning to listen to my body. It has been a bumpy and beautiful journey. 8 weeks ago, I felt my body start to crave running again. Since my concussion 6 years ago, I haven’t been able to run without it resulting in a massive migraine. Running was not only something I no longer enjoyed, it was an activity that caused me deep pain. I was quite surprised when I felt this urge to run, but I’ve learned to listen to my body. I also knew it had been a LONG time since my feet had hit the pavement in a speed faster than a walk, so I needed to take it slow. I also needed to re-learn how to run. I started the Peloton run outdoors program. My first run outdoors was a bit chaotic and quite humorous; I felt completely out of my element and could only run 2 minutes without needing to walk. But, what I would have previously labelled “embarrassing” (which would have led me to quit), felt more like I was honouring what my body was signalling to me. I did not have a headache and it felt good. Fast forward 2 months and I finished my Peloton running outdoors program today where I ran 30 minutes straight without walking or stopping…a huge accomplishment as compared to day one. I think I will always be learning how to love and accept my body, but today, I rejoice that I am one step closer.
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