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33: How to Get Your Kids to Listen

September 3, 2018

In Episode 33 of The IMbetween Podcast, Daniel and Christina Im discuss ways to communicate to your children that you are listening and that they can talk to you. 

In This Episode, You Will Hear About:

  • A synopsis of the book “How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk”
  • Ways to help show our kids that we are listening and acknowledging their feelings
  • Our two big takeaways from the entire book

Resources Mentioned During the Episode:

  • Enter the Business Boutique Giveaway Here
  • How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish
  • How to Talk So Little Kids Will Listen – by Joanna Faber
  • ONE – by Kathryn Otishi
  • The Orange Rhino – website of the Mom that is no longer screaming at her children
  • Episode 24 – How to Help Your Children Get Along
  • Inside Out movie
  • Audibletrial.com/imbetween – grab your FREE book when you sign up for a free 30-day Audible trial

Quotables:

  • “I want my child to know that they’re entitled to be miserable without their mother falling apart.” – Faber & Mazlish
  • “There is a direct connection between how kids feel and how they behave. When kids feel right, they’ll behave right.” – Faber & Mazlish
  • “We need to teach our kids that it is okay to have two very different emotions at the same.”
  • “Parents, pat yourselves on the back. You did not cause this problem.”
  • “The time for empathy is when a child wants you to know how he feels.” – Faber & Mazlish
  • “Life with children is open-ended. There’s always another opportunity.” – Faber & Mazlish

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