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13: How to Help Hurting People with Christine Martin

April 16, 2018

In Episode 13 of The IMbetween Podcast, Christina Im interviews Christine Martin, about Postpartum Depression and how to help people who are hurting.Ā 

In This Episode, You Will Hear About:

  • The TRUE meaning of BOGO
  • Christine Martin’s story about her battle with Postpartum Depression
  • When Christine decided to seek medical attention and ask for help
  • What resources to seek out when hurting
  • How being a friend can be a great step to help
  • Practical ways to help someone who is hurting
  • The importance of showing up and being there to help
  • How to help when you live far away from a friend that is hurting
  • Advice about what to do if you suspect a friend or spouse has PPD
  • How it takes courage to help those who are hurting

Resources Mentioned During the Episode:

  • Amidst the Chaos – Christine Martin’s lifestyle blog
  • Something’s Not Right – Christine’s PPD story (Part 1)
  • I Need HelpĀ  – Christine’s PPD story (Part 2)
  • No Way, Not MeĀ  – Christine’s PPD story (Part 3)
  • I Have Postpartum Depression – Christine’s PPD story (Part 4)
  • Golden Penny Pancakes – Christine Martin’s recipe for the BEST cheese pancakes
  • Chocolate Chip Banana Muffins – Christine Martin’s recipe for the yummiest muffins (can also be made egg-free)

Quotables:

  • “Pain and hurt is kind of wasted if you don’t share it with other people.”
  • “As a Mom, I felt like I was supposed to be the strong one for my kids.”
  • “Anytime I felt guilt/shame of taking medication, I would choose to see it as giving my kids the gift of a healthy Mom.”
  • “There is beauty in the broken.”
  • “I am here…so come.”
  • “The truth is they do need something, but it is difficult to ask.”
  • “Don’t wait for the invitation to help them. Just figure out a practical way to show up in their life.”
  • “Be there in their mess.”
  • “Get real. Have a frank discussion with yourself about yourself.”
  • “Don’t stay quiet. Seek help for the betterment of your kids and your family and ultimately your life.”
  • “People who seek help are the bravest and courageous people.”
  • “Fight for help and wellness.”
  • “Lead with grace, love, and understanding…even if you don’t understand.”

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Thanks to everyone who wished me a happy birthday. You all represent different times and aspects of my life made all the more meaningful and brighter because of your presence. My 40s started off with me doing some pretty deep healing, learning to dream again, learning my limits, learning how to say no, learning to ask for what I needed, and learning to listen to my body. It has been a bumpy and beautiful journey. 8 weeks ago, I felt my body start to crave running again. Since my concussion 6 years ago, I haven’t been able to run without it resulting in a massive migraine. Running was not only something I no longer enjoyed, it was an activity that caused me deep pain. I was quite surprised when I felt this urge to run, but I’ve learned to listen to my body. I also knew it had been a LONG time since my feet had hit the pavement in a speed faster than a walk, so I needed to take it slow. I also needed to re-learn how to run. I started the Peloton run outdoors program. My first run outdoors was a bit chaotic and quite humorous; I felt completely out of my element and could only run 2 minutes without needing to walk. But, what I would have previously labelled ā€œembarrassingā€ (which would have led me to quit), felt more like I was honouring what my body was signalling to me. I did not have a headache and it felt good. Fast forward 2 months and I finished my Peloton running outdoors program today where I ran 30 minutes straight without walking or stopping…a huge accomplishment as compared to day one. I think I will always be learning how to love and accept my body, but today, I rejoice that I am one step closer.
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